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The Emerging Lightworker

by Vicki-Admin | May 27, 2022 | events, slider

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I've just been listening to a talk by Wayne Dyer a

I've just been listening to a talk by Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra where Wayne shares a story about one of his daughters.
At a young age she contracted a skin virus which gave her, blemishes. The English version of what he called them is probably moles.
Visits to many dermatologists all gave the same results..."there is no cure but they will fade in time". However 3-4 years later, they were still there and getting worse.
One wise friend who was also a dermatologist said to her in conversation "there is no cure, but this is a virus in your skin. You have the power to heal that virus. Talk to your blemishes and ask them to go away".
Being still young and able to get in touch with her imagination, she believed the dermatologist and for a few days, spoke to her skin condition, asking it to go away. Four days later, the blemishes had gone, where for 3-4 years they had remained.
How amazing that, while this child's mind was still open to possibility, she learned she had the power to manage her own health. 👏
Why did this work? Partly because, according to enlightened cell biologists like Bruce Lipton, we are in fact, in control of our own cells who are listening to what we say, think and feel. And maybe more importantly, she believed the doctor, with no doubt, because she was still at that stage of development where everything is possible. There was no logical process in her mind that might have argued or believed it not to be true.
Unfortunately most of us are beyond that stage now, which changes when we are about 7 years old. But I leave you with a couple of thoughts.
1) If a child's belief is so strong in the early years that they can heal themselves, how careful should we be with the types of beliefs we are sharing with them?
2) What could be possible for us if we were to return to that child-like state and see all of life as magical and full of possibilities?
I look forward to reading your thoughts below 😍

This morning I wanted to create a post, but I also

This morning I wanted to create a post, but I also wanted to get out in the sunshine before the weather changed! 🙂 So as we are in “Virgo” season, a great time for creating positive habits, I thought I’d go for a walk with the aim of gaining inspiration. Taking my old MP3 player with me, I set off at a brisk pace to the first music track that appeared… “Ooh, I just know that something good is gonna happen…” Great timing! 😃
Walking at a brisk pace to this upbeat music I reached Mudeford Quay in record time. The tide was on it’s way out, with seagulls floating at quite a distance from me, waiting to catch the small creatures as the water ebbed away. I gazed over the beautiful scenery and asked for some inspiration or guidance.
Hmmm…the seagulls were quite a way away from me, and I sometimes think of them as representing Angels. Did this mean my Angels were distant and that I needed to invite them in? Like a parent with a toddler or teenager, our Angels cannot help us unless we ask them to. So I asked my Angels to be near me, and to send me a sign. “Maybe bring a Seagull close to me” I suggested.
Following a familiar route around the edge of the Quay I noticed a giant seagull on a Pole, right by my path! So I sat on a nearby bench to enjoy his company, and ask for his guidance for a post.
Continuing my trip round I found myself by the shore, and my eye was first caught by one seagull swimming nearby before my gaze led me to a small group of seagulls bobbing up and down on the waves. In my ears Will I Am began singing “Hello…. I’m here with all of my friends, all my friends” and continued “we’re here with all of our friends, all our friends…”
I also noticed the beautiful path of light approaching me across the water – the reflection of the sun but also representing light and love. I felt my heart open to its warmth.
My inspiration for this post? Building #selfcare habits in #Virgoseason. You don’t have to live near the ocean to go for walks and gain inspiration. Go for a walk in a park, by a river or even down a pleasant street, and notice what inspiration is waiting there for you 🥰

Laying, eyes closed, on the beach on a windy day,

Laying, eyes closed, on the beach on a windy day, I looked up as a cloud passed in front of the sun. Was the sun going to be in long? My eyes drifted over the thickening cloud above my head, then over to lighter clouds beyond.
I closed my eyes and decided to monitor the situation. But I became anxious as the sun stayed in - would it get too cold to stay? Would more clouds come?
Looking up once more I noticed more dark clouds joining those in front of the sun from the right, making the afternoon seem more bleak. It looked like the sunbathing may be over, and I might even get rained on!
Then I remembered that I had been practising "staying in the moment" instead of imagining the worst. So I closed my eyes again, thanked the universe for the returning sun and let my mind wander.
After some minutes I felt some warmth on my face and opened my eyes. There was the sun, peeping between the clouds, and the dark clouds appeared to have slowed their progress. I closed my eyes again, and wandered off in my mind.
After some time, I felt the warmth on my face again and there was the sun - at the edge of the cloud that was originally covering it! It was as if the clouds had completely changed direction!
I believe that whenever I spend time on my own on the beach, the beach (or the Universe) has a lesson to share with me. That day's was, worry makes things worse, and staying in the moment allows the problem to melt away.
What can you do to help your worries melt away today?

I love how some of my online friends share how the

I love how some of my online friends share how they "walk their talk" so that we can all learn in a practical way. So I'm going to have a go at this too by sharing my gratitude practise with you today.
Today, I reflect back on a summer of abundance
- the lovely sunny days we've had here in the South of England which have allowed me to experience our coastal environment comfortably in daytime and evenings (remember those summers where we had to take a waterproof coat everywhere?)
- a beautiful new addition to our family in the form of our first Granddaughter who arrived early but healthy and was able to go home the next day.
- the love of my friends and family and the things that we share - mostly over the internet for which I am also very grateful.
- the opportunities I have to learn from others who share their skills on webinars, podcasts, facebook lives and workshops or even have the dedication to write books that I can read or listen to.
- the opportunity for growth - however large or small, that is offered to me every day.
Thank you Universe and all of those who are playing their part to make this happen❤️
What are you grateful for today?

Today I was talking to my friend @MariellaFranker

Today I was talking to my friend @MariellaFranker about a project I'm planning to reveal to the world soon, in collaboration with two other lovely souls. She asked me what would be the most "fun" and "easy" next step for me. During my answer, the phrase "follow the fun" emerged.
And this is key at the moment. Yes, I take my Coaching seriously. Yes, I do my best when running Meditation Groups, but there's no point in me doing any of this if I don't enjoy it.
So if, for instance, writing a blog doesn't look like fun for me at the moment, then I won't do it just because I "should". And I feel some resistance to blog writing releasing even as I write this....
What would be the easiest and most fun step that would take you a little nearer your current intentions/goals could you take today? Maybe share below so you can help to make them real. <3

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